Employee doesn't reveal to coworkers that he speaks Spanish, they get upset when they realize he's fluent: 'The look on her face was genuinely something'

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  • A male office worker holding a takeout coffee stands in an open plan workspace, with a woman sat a table behind him
  • Am I wrong for not telling my coworkers that I speak fluent Spanish?

    So I (28M) am pretty mixed looking, I get asked what my background is fairly often and I genuinely don't mind, but I don't look obviously Hispanic to most people.
  • My mom is from Mexico and I grew up speaking Spanish at home, I'm fully fluent, I think in both languages depending on context.
  • I started a new job about three months ago. Two of my coworkers, both native Spanish speakers, figured pretty early on that I didn't speak Spanish, I think because I never responded to anything they said in it and nobody asked.
  • For the first few weeks they would occasionally say small things in Spanish around me, nothing major.
  • But over time it became more frequent and more candid. Comments about other coworkers, opinions about our manager, complaints about workload, at one point a fairly detailed conversation about someone on another team that was not particularly kind.
  • I understood all of it. I never said anything because honestly at first I was just curious how long it would go on, and then it started. to feel like the longer I waited the more awkward the reveal would be.
  • Last week one of them made a comment in Spanish directly referencing something I had said in a meeting, kind of mocking the way I had phrased something, not viciously but it was clearly not meant for me to hear.
  • I laughed without thinking. The look on her face was genuinely something. She asked if I spoke Spanish and I said yes, fluently, my mom is Mexican.
  • She went pale. Now both of them have been very stiff and formal with me and apparently one of them told a coworker I had been "spying" on them.
  • I didn't go out of my way to decieve anyone, I just never corrected an assumption.
  • A male office worker holds a coffee and talks on his cell phone in an open plan workspace
  • Kisses4Kimmy NTJ. If anything they are. Because now it looks like they were purposely speaking Spanish to exclude you.
  • HobbitualTortfeasor Spanish is the second most spoken language in the United States, the assumption that no one else besides themself and their little Bestie speak (be it black white mexican japanese or purple) is insane. NTJ
  • Only_Anteater3397 You didn't lie, you just let their assumptions run
  • Stock-Promotion924 Nah OP, that's not spying lol they just got too comfy talking smack in a language they thought was "private"
  • DifficultStruggle420 I worked at a famous, high-end restaurant in Chicago years ago. There was a head waiter (or captain), a busboy, and a food runner. Except for 1 or 2 exceptions over the years, the headwaiter did not speak Spanish, but the other team members did. One night, 2 of the busboys were having a not so delicate conversation next to a couple of the diners while in the dining room. Apparently, a couple who was non- Hispanic, understood what they were talking about and got offended by t
  • onlyforcurious Not the j . They assumed, you didn't correct. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. If they didn't want you to hear it, they shouldn't have said it at work.
  • Common-Challenge-703 Not everyone owes coworkers all their personal info. You should share what you want to share.
  • OriginalReddKatt Let's examine exactly what happened here. They did something embarrassing and then we're embarrassed by it. And they're trying to make you the problem when they were gossiping, rumor-mongering, and engaging in middle school behaviors. Running your mouth and assuming that no one around you can understand what you're saying is the problem. The problem's not that someone else understands a language you're speaking. NTJ
  • mariagouthro You don't have to announce you understand Spanish. They're the ones that assumed that! Let them be. Their so embarrassed they made you the office spy!
  • DNA2801 NTJ. And it isn't close, they are the jerks for assuming. Also they are embarrassed cuz they found out their gossip they tried to hide was now visible for someone else to see.

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